What is Family Mediation?
Family Mediation is a process that allows a separating couple to negotiate future arrangements about finances or children without going through an expensive and lengthy court battle. It involves a series of face-to-face meetings in which parties communicate openly and voluntarily to reach the heart of their issues (without the heavy cost implications) and make effective decisions about the future.
Mediation can sometimes be a great alternative to the lengthy court process. This is because a mediator can still arrange separate and combined meetings, listen to each party’s point of view attentively, and help them in securing the best results. A mediator can also assist in determining the value of assets and how to divide them fairly.
Is Family Mediation for me?
Family Mediation is not for every divorcing couple or separating family. It is likely only to be right for you in the following cases:
- Lack of Conflict-Resolving Skills
Sometimes a dispute does not get resolved because the parties lack conflict-resolving skills. A mediator could assist with this since they are very experienced in assessing financial/children issues in a fair and clear manner.
- Lack of Finances
Mediation is also a fine option when a separating family does not have enough finances to go to court. Instead of expending costs on hearings and applications, one can hand over the matter to an expert – a mediator – at relatively low costs.
- Preservation of Relationship
Family Mediation can help repair and build a stronger bond between family members, since it takes away the animosity that comes with litigation.
Is Family Mediation worth it?
In most cases, attending a Family Mediation is worth it. Mediation meetings are confidential and are held in a supportive and protective environment. It also provides you with more control and helps you settle the dispute cheaply, quickly, and efficiently.
